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Posted by Michelle Pence - - 27 comments

Thank you notes are an important yet often forgotten part of being an intern/wanna-be intern, and knowing how to properly compose one is an essential skill for any young professional.  Being proactive and sending a thank you note after the right situation and at the right time will say a lot about your character and might even seal the deal for a job opportunity or a new professional contact.  Once you get into the habit of sending thank you notes, the process will become effortless and you'll start realizing even more situations in your life where taking a few minutes to write one makes you look generous and considerate (which is always a good thing).

There are tons of times that call for thank you notes to be written outside of sending the obligatory thank you note after an interview.  Here are a few of these situations:

  • After completing an internship
  • When someone writes a letter of recommendation on your behalf
  • After someone helps you with a project
  • Upon meeting with someone new
Give it some personality

Appropriate thank you note
While some people may disagree, I always prefer to send hand-written thank you notes as opposed to the more formal and dime-a-dozen typed thank you letters.  The reason for this is that I believe handwriting a card gives it a personal touch and shows that you put some thought into it.  With the amount of email and other electronic communication people see each day, receiving something handwritten stands out.  

When choosing what to write on, it's ideal to own a set of personalized stationary with your name on it, but not everyone can afford this or may need to send the note before there is time to order a set (Hint- Put it on your Christmas list).  A package of stationary or cards from a store such as Target or Hallmark is completely fine, just think classy and make sure you keep it professional by staying away from crazy colors and patterns.  When picking one out, choose a card that is blank on the inside so you have room to write everything you need to and don't have to work around the printed message inside.

Inappropriate thank you note
What to say

How you address the recipient of the note is one of the first things they will see, so put some thought into it.  If they indicated that you should call them by their first name then address them by that, but if you're not sure go ahead and use Mr., Ms., or Mrs.  You will want to keep the note short and sweet, but at the same time fit in everything that you want to say.  Be sure to thank the person for their time right off the bat and reference the situation that you're writing the card for to refresh their memory.  To help figure out everything that you want to say, type your message on the computer first and once you've nailed it down transfer it to the actual note.  If you have horrible handwriting definitely go with sending a typed note; you want to make sure that everything is neat and legible.  Don't forget to sign the note, thank them one more time, and use a professional closing such as "Sincerely".  Also, add your contact information to the bottom in case they need to reach you.  After you're finished, read over the note to check for errors and then read it again or have someone else look at it just to double-check.

After an interview

Appropriate thank you note
Writing a thank you card after an interview is a lot trickier than writing one for many of the other situations.  Since the interviewer will probably be receiving thank you cards from other applicants as well, you definitely want yours to stand out.  In this situation, it might be best to type up a more formal letter, just to ensure that you have room for everything you need to say and that it can be easily read.  

After the introduction where you thank them for their time, recap why you are the most qualified for the position and possibly give an example of how.  Don't leave any doubt in their mind that you have a strong interest in the company, especially after learning a bit more during the interview.  Touch on anything the interviewer brought up during the interview that you found especially interesting or anything that you connected over.  Also, use the opportunity to add in anything you might have forgotten to mention during the interview or feel you want to expand on, but don't explicitly state that you forgot.

Inappropriate thank you note
Step on it

Writing a thank you note should be done soon after whatever you're thanking the person for took place.  For example, if the note is for a job interview start working on it as soon as you get home and get it in the mail the same day.  You don't want to risk the person wondering why you haven't thanked them yet if they had some expectations about receiving a note.

Is it okay to email?

It's generally not okay to send a thank you through email since this takes all of the personality and effort out of the process.  The only times I might send a thank you via email is if I already know the person well and sending a card might be a little over-board for whatever I'm thanking them for.  One exception is if you send an email and follow-up with a handwritten note.
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Posted by Michelle Pence - - 22 comments

A couple weeks ago I gave you several tips for wrapping up your summer internship… one of those tips being, “ask for a letter of recommendation”. Truth is, asking for a letter of recommendation (LOR) is a lot more complex than I made it seem in my one paragraph tip. I myself am currently in the process of gaining LORs from several contacts at former internships for law school applications, and let me tell you… I know how confusing and sensitive the whole deal is.

This time, I’m going to give you all of the information you are entitled to know before asking for a letter of recommendation.

Jump on it


As soon as your internship is nearing to an end, take the time to approach your supervisor in person and ask if they’d be willing to write a LOR on your behalf.  This way, your performance is still fresh in their mind.  It never hurts to ask for a LOR simply to have one handy for future opportunities.  The general rule is to have 2-3 on file at any given time.


Choose your approach

Schedule a time to meet with your supervisor in their office; don’t spring the big question on them in passing. Meeting with the recommender in person is the most professional and preferred method, but if you are unable to do so don’t freak out. For whatever reason, if you can’t meet with them in person, I personally feel like a well-written email is acceptable, as long as you treat it like a formal letter.

How to ask

I like to split the process of asking for a LOR into two main steps: getting the recommender to agree to write the letter, and giving them the details. This way, you aren’t overwhelming them with too many specifics right off the bat.

Get them to agree

Obviously the main aspect of this step is simply asking if they will write you a LOR, but you need to be prepared to let them know why they should.

Be clear about what purpose you are seeking the LOR for, whether it's for future employment opportunities, grad school, law school, etc. This will give them an idea of what angle to take when writing the LOR.  Be ready to explain why you are seeking the opportunity... such as what you plan to study in grad school and why you want to study that subject.

 Set a deadline (give them AT LEAST a month) and let them know it, but don’t expect them to remember just from this initial contact.

Be a stickler for details

After they agree to write you a LOR (and surely they will since you were such a good intern), follow-up by mailing them a formal letter with all of the specific details and repeating what you mentioned during the initial contact. A letter that can be physically handled is preferential because it’s less likely to get lost than an email and enclosures can be read more easily. Your letter should include, once again, why you are asking for a LOR, what the deadline is, and any other instructions (official letterhead, where to send it, etc.).

One of the secrets to scoring a killer LOR is to essentially write it yourself. I don’t mean actually writing the entire letter yourself, but detailing what you want the recommender to say about you. “I was hoping maybe you could talk about how I'm the best intern you have ever had, and that any employer would be lucky to have me,” is probably not going to cut it, but letting them know you are hoping they could mention particular things in the letter such as your magnetic personality, or how you dealt with problems, such as that time you saved the entire office from a swarm of killer bees.

In one of the latest letters I wrote asking for a LOR for law school, I said…

“My other references will be able to talk about my academic ability, but you really know the extent of my written and oral communication skills, such as my ability to read and listen effectively. Several examples I thought of include analyzing bill texts and communicating with constituents and other Senate staff. I was hoping maybe you could talk about how I handle stress and think critically to solve problems, because those are qualities the selection committee wants to see. One example of this would how I unexpectedly handled the management of the office during [the legislative assistant’s] brief absence.”

Enclose what they need

You definitely want to at least enclose a current resume. Other materials you can include are a writing sample, transcript, and anything else applicable to the specific situation you are getting the LOR for.  For my situation, aside from the required LSAC cover sheet that needed to be included with the LOR, I enclosed a brief article about how to write LORs for law school for their reference, and because the process is very specific.

Also, if the letter needs to be sent somewhere, make sure to include an envelope and postage as to not cause any more trouble for the recommender.

Say thanks... then say it again

You should be saying thank you every step of the way… after they initially agree, when you send the follow-up materials, and definitely after you receive the LOR or confirmation that it was sent to where it needs to go. Writing a good LOR should take quite a bit of time for the recommender, so be grateful. A handwritten thank you note is obligatory after the process is completed.  Updating the recommender on whether or not you got the opportunity the letter was being used for, is another good way to keep your name in their mind and maintain a good relationship with them for future opportunities.

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